The General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Enoch Adeboye, has advised young men to prioritise spiritual discernment and practical values when choosing a life partner, warning that marriage based solely on physical attraction could lead to regret.
Adeboye gave the counsel during the May edition of the church’s Holy Ghost Service on Saturday, where he addressed issues surrounding marriage, relationships and personal responsibility.
He cautioned men against being carried away by outward beauty, noting that such decisions, if not guided by prayer and discernment, could have serious consequences.
“There are many demons that are very beautiful. If you marry because of beauty, you might choose a demon. I’m not saying all beautiful people are demonic. If it’s beauty alone that leads you into marriage, it’s a deep trap,” he said.
The cleric also stressed the importance of domestic competence and hospitality, advising men to carefully consider these qualities when making marital choices.
“Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook. We are talking of excellent counsel. Even if a prophet says this is your wife, if she can’t cook, say ‘Thank you, keep her,’” he said, citing biblical examples such as Sarah and the Shunamite woman.
Adeboye further warned against entering into marriages that could lead to financial strain, urging men to reconsider relationships where wedding plans may result in debt.
“No matter how close you are to a wedding, if your partner is suggesting a ceremony that will cost you everything you have and get you into debt, call it off,” he advised.
On personal appearance, the pastor cautioned against excessive use of cosmetics, including artificial hair, eyelashes and nails, urging men to look beyond outward appearance when choosing a spouse.
He added that excessive makeup could sometimes mask underlying issues, encouraging deeper evaluation of character.
In a related remark during a session with church workers, Adeboye also stated that Nigeria’s next president ahead of the 2027 general elections has already been determined by God, stressing that divine will ultimately prevails over human efforts.